Engaged and long-term couples who are Christian have very unique needs. Our personalized program can help you avoid common problems, build a deeper connection and protect your love to ensure it will last.

How can it be personalized?

That’s an understandable question. How can an online service really give you advice about your relationship? We do it by asking you over 300 questions. We take your responses and analyze them to assemble information and guidance that specifically focuses on the areas where you need it. We have a team of psychologists who have spent two years building a process that considers the subtleties of your life with your spouse, and provides articles, profile analysis, and activities that will address your needs.

The best way to judge our program is to try it out. We allow you to take the questionnaire and get your Communication Report for FREE. We’re confident that once you see this report, you’ll understand how personalized eHarmony Marriage can be.

What if my spouse won’t participate?

eHarmony Marriage was designed to work for either single users or couples. Single users will receive all program benefits: articles, profiles, activities, as well as guidance for encouraging your spouse to join you. But whether or not your spouse participates, our experience has shown that the knowledge gained gives you the tools and ideas to have a significant impact on your marriage. You can begin to make change in a positive way on your own.

How can I find the time to do this?

Time is certainly the most precious element in our lives. Many couples who completely believe in the power of eHarmony Marriage to help them will say, “But my life is so jammed full of important things, how can I add this program?”

The answer is two fold.

First, know that eHarmony Marriage was designed to take only about 20 minutes a week. That’s the kind of time most people can find.

Second, if you’re like most Americans there are at least two or three things you do with your time each week that are less important than your marriage. That’s right. You could forgo one half-hour TV show. You could start your “date night” by each using the program. You could even, (not a pleasant idea perhaps), get up 30 minutes early on Saturday or Sunday and learn the skills and ideas that will make your marriage more loving and more enjoyable. Your marriage will do more to determine your happiness than almost every other area of life. It deserves the time to do some simple care and maintenance.

Why will this program work
when other things haven’t?

There are some unique traits of the eHarmony Marriage program that make it effective for couples who have tried other options.

For many individuals the idea of talking to a therapist about the problems of their marriage is a non-starter. This person may even go to counseling for a short time. But the fear of discussing their inner world with a third party may prevent them from ever really “submitting” to the process.

eHarmony Marriage allows users to work at home, without a 3rd party, to expressive themselves and receive our guidance in a private way.

Obviously, if your previous efforts have been centered around self-help books you’ll find that eHarmony Marriage provides a personalized program specific to your needs in a way that books written for broad groups of people never can.

Finally, it is important to mention that some relationships may not benefit from eHarmony Marriage. The program was not designed for couples who are experiencing extreme levels of dischord. Professional counseling is still the best way for most couples who are on the edge of divorce to approach their issues. In addition, couples who have experienced domestic abuse should involve law enforcement immediately.

How is it different from counseling?
What if counseling hasn’t worked for us?

eHarmony Marriage is not counseling. Think of it as the best alternative to counseling.

Our experts have over 40 years of clinical experience counseling thousands of couples with every type of marital issue. So they designed eHarmony Marriage to have all the key benefits of therapy with none of the notorious disadvantages.

• Instead of having to make an appointment, you do it on your own schedule.
• Instead of having to open up to a complete stranger, you enjoy complete privacy.
• Instead of the going to a therapist’s office, you do it in the comfort of your own home.
• Instead of paying hundreds of dollars for just one session, you pay less than $150.

Unlike therapy, it won’t take months or years to zero in on your main problems with eHarmony Marriage. You take the questionnaire and we instantly give you personalized help, interactive tools and step-by-step instructions tailored to your specific issues as a couple. We give you real answers and the guidance you need most.

How does it work?

The steps are easy:

1. Take our patented Marriage Questionnaire.
2. Based on your responses, you instantly get your FREE Communication Report.
3. Subscribe to receive all the expert advice and unique tools tailored to your marriage’s unique challenges.

eHarmony Marriage is 100% private, practical and personalized to your relationship.

Is it easy to use?

eHarmony Marriage was designed to be simple to use for individuals with even the most basic Web skills. You need either a PC or a Mac with internet access (high speed preferred). Basic internet surfing skills will allow you to fill out the questionnaire, read the personalized feedback and watch the online exercise videos (for best viewing experience, please use a high speed internet connection).

eHarmony Marriage gives couples easy tools to better understand their relationship and each other. Accessing the profile, the online exercises and the hundreds of Advice Corner articles can be done from any internet connected computer and at any hour of the day. You determine when and where you want to receive personalized feedback for you, your spouse and your relationship. You have total control and total privacy.