Issues & Challenges

Couples who are experiencing challenges need strong guidance and immediate help. Feeling frustrated, alone and ready to give up? Tired of generic advice? eHarmony Marriage is the only personalized program designed to focus on the areas where you need it the most, and help you rebuild your most valued relationship.

Every Couple Is Different


No two marriages face the same issues. That’s why eHarmony Marriage focuses on your very unique marriage problems!

Our revolutionary technology allows us to tailor a complete solution to tackle your specific challenges – all in the privacy of your own home!

With eHarmony Marriage You Will Get:



  • Our patented questionnaire that assesses the state of your relationship – Take it for free now!
  • Your FREE Communication Report.
  • Your FREE subscription to the monthly eHarmony Marriage newsletter full of practical advice.
  • Your in-depth Marriage Profile plus 12 interactive videos and hundreds of Advice Corner articles written by our reknowned experts.

Making Your Marriage Stronger with eHarmony


Communication. Trust. Sex. Money. Kids. In-laws. Careers. And much more.

We know exactly how to help you save your marriage. Our experts have been helping couples with every kind of marital problem for over 40 years.

  • End the fighting and frustration
  • Repair communication problems
  • Recapture closeness and intimacy
  • Get beyond past hurts and move toward healing
  • Restore the connection and romance
  • Enjoy a more peaceful and joyful marriage

The Best Alternative to Counseling


eHarmony Marriage is the best alternative to counseling for any couple who needs to create real change in their life together.

  • You do it on your own schedule
  • You do it in the privacy of your own home
  • It's completely personalized for your needs
  • It costs much less than even one counseling session

Will This Work for Me?


Here are some of the most common questions and answers couples have about eHarmony Marriage. Click on each question to read more.

How much does it cost?

How much does it cost?

eHarmony Marriage offers you a way to make your marriage stronger, happier, and more enjoyable for less than $150. The best way to consider the price of eHarmony Marriage is by comparing it to the typical options couples use to improve their marriage.

Self-Help Books:
Books usually cost between $20 and $30. They aren’t personalized for your relationship. They often contain lots of filler material and can be hard to apply to your life.

Professional Counseling:
Most marriage counselors charge between $100 and $200 per one hour session. Counselors require travel and multiple sessions are the norm. Many people are uncomfortable sharing the details of their life with a 3rd party.

Our program is the perfect combination of these two approaches: Personalized and professional like counseling, while being inexpensive and easy to use like a self-help book.

How can it be personalized?

How can it be personalized?

That’s an understandable question. How can an online service really give you advice about your relationship? We do it by asking you over 300 questions. We take your responses and analyze them to assemble information and guidance that specifically focuses on the areas where you need it. We have a team of psychologists who have spent two years building a process that considers the subtleties of your life with your spouse, and provides articles, profile analysis, and activities that will address your needs.

The best way to judge our program is to try it out. We allow you to take the questionnaire and get your Communication Report for FREE. We’re confident that once you see this report, you’ll understand how personalized eHarmony Marriage can be.

What if my spouse
won’t participate?

What if my spouse won’t participate?

eHarmony Marriage was designed to work for either single users or couples. Single users will receive all program benefits: articles, profiles, activities, as well as guidance for encouraging your spouse to join you. But whether or not your spouse participates, our experience has shown that the knowledge gained gives you the tools and ideas to have a significant impact on your marriage. You can begin to make change in a positive way on your own.

How can I find the time
to do this?

How can I find the time to do this?

Time is certainly the most precious element in our lives. Many couples who completely believe in the power of eHarmony Marriage to help them will say, “But my life is so jammed full of important things, how can I add this program?”

The answer is two fold.

First, know that eHarmony Marriage was designed to take only about 20 minutes a week. That’s the kind of time most people can find.

Second, if you’re like most Americans there are at least two or three things you do with your time each week that are less important than your marriage. That’s right. You could forgo one half-hour TV show. You could start your “date night” by each using the program. You could even, (not a pleasant idea perhaps), get up 30 minutes early on Saturday or Sunday and learn the skills and ideas that will make your marriage more loving and more enjoyable. Your marriage will do more to determine your happiness than almost every other area of life. It deserves the time to do some simple care and maintenance.

Why will this program work when other things haven’t?

Why will this program work
when other things haven’t?

There are some unique traits of the eHarmony Marriage program that make it effective for couples who have tried other options.

For many individuals the idea of talking to a therapist about the problems of their marriage is a non-starter. This person may even go to counseling for a short time. But the fear of discussing their inner world with a third party may prevent them from ever really “submitting” to the process.

eHarmony Marriage allows users to work at home, without a 3rd party, to expressive themselves and receive our guidance in a private way.

Obviously, if your previous efforts have been centered around self-help books you’ll find that eHarmony Marriage provides a personalized program specific to your needs in a way that books written for broad groups of people never can.

Finally, it is important to mention that some relationships may not benefit from eHarmony Marriage. The program was not designed for couples who are experiencing extreme levels of dischord. Professional counseling is still the best way for most couples who are on the edge of divorce to approach their issues. In addition, couples who have experienced domestic abuse should involve law enforcement immediately.

How is it different from counseling? What if counseling hasn’t worked for us?

How is it different from counseling?
What if counseling hasn’t worked for us?

eHarmony Marriage is not counseling. Think of it as the best alternative to counseling.

Our experts have over 40 years of clinical experience counseling thousands of couples with every type of marital issue. So they designed eHarmony Marriage to have all the key benefits of therapy with none of the notorious disadvantages.

  • Instead of having to make an appointment, you do it on your own schedule.
  • Instead of having to open up to a complete stranger, you enjoy complete privacy.
  • Instead of the going to a therapist’s office, you do it in the comfort of your own home.
  • Instead of paying hundreds of dollars for just one session, you pay less than $150.

Unlike therapy, it won’t take months or years to zero in on your main problems with eHarmony Marriage. You take the questionnaire and we instantly give you personalized help, interactive tools and step-by-step instructions tailored to your specific issues as a couple. We give you real answers and the guidance you need most.

How does it work?

How does it work?

The steps are easy:

  1. Take our patented Marriage Questionnaire.
  2. Based on your responses, you instantly get your FREE Communication Reports.
  3. Subscribe to receive all the expert advice and unique tools tailored to your marriage’s unique challenges.

eHarmony Marriage is 100% private, practical and personalized to your relationship.

Is it easy to use?

Is it easy to use?

eHarmony Marriage was designed to be simple to use for individuals with even the most basic Web skills. You need either a PC or a Mac with internet access (high speed preferred). Basic internet surfing skills will allow you to fill out the questionnaire, read the personalized feedback and watch the online exercise videos (for best viewing experience, please use a high speed internet connection).

eHarmony Marriage gives couples easy tools to better understand their relationship and each other. Accessing the profile, the online exercises and the hundreds of Advice Corner articles can be done from any internet connected computer and at any hour of the day. You determine when and where you want to receive personalized feedback for you, your spouse and your relationship. You have total control and total privacy.

My marriage is pretty good. Why do I need this?

My marriage is pretty good.
Why do I need this?

All human relationships require small amounts of constant care and attention. This is especially true for a marriage that stays vibrant year after year. Taking the time to make small changes, learn new techniques, or resolve annoying issues is crucial. It will make your relationship stronger. It will make you more resistant to future major problems as a couple. It will take your satisfaction levels to new heights.

eHarmony Marriage is the best way to cultivate long term marriage wellness! Think of marriage wellness as the key to:

  • Taking your relationship from good to great!
  • Modeling a better marriage for your children.
  • Preventing the heartbreak of divorce.